Winners Vs Losers

The winner is always part of the answer;
The loser is always part of the problem. 

The Winner always has a program.
The Loser always has an excuse. 

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you.";
The Loser says, " That is not my job." 

The Winner sees a problem for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer. 

The Winner says,"It may be diffcult but it is possilbe.";
The Loser Says,"It may be possilbe but it is too difficult." 

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says,"I was wrong.";
When a Loser makes a mistake , he says ,"it wasn't my fault."

A winners makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises. 

Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes. 

Winners say,"I must do something.";
Losers say,"Something must be done." 

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain. 

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems. 

Winners believe in Win/Win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose. 

Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past. 

Winners are like a thermostat:
Losers are like thermometers. 

Winner choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose. 

winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words. 

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values. 

Winners follows the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy,"Do it to others before they do it to you." 

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen. 
If You Think 
Winners plan and prepare to win.The key word is preparation

Dua Rakhna

kisi se kya gila rakhna.....

bas apna andaaz rava rakhna... 

apne andazz se khushrangi chaai

mehki hui fiza kaise rakhna 

zindagi ka hisaab hai sar pe

dar-e-guzar ise uthaye rakhna 

milne-julne se pyaar badhta hai

milne-julne ka sisila rakhna 

judaai ka sabab agar aaye ek din

iski kuch palien tum samaye rakhna 

kya bharosa kab kaha ye shamo-sehar dhal jaye

zindagi ka safar bas achcha rakhna... 

dusron ki burai se pehle

roo-ba-roo apne aks aaina rakhna 

aa bhi jaye kabhi judaai ka aalam

dil main fir milne ki duaa rakhna

Friendship

Dost hain to aansuon ki bhi shaan hoti hai,

Dost na ho to mehfil bhi shamshaan hoti hai....

Sara khel to dosti ka hai,

Warna arthi aur baarat ek saman hoti hai....

Tere Bin

Zindagi tere bin adoori hain..

na jaane kyun ye doori hain..

sochta hoon bhuladoon tujko..par

teri ek muskurahat hi meri kamzori hain....

Kaanton mein rehker bhi hum zindagi jee lete hain..

her zakhm ko apne haaton se seelete hain..

jis haath ko maan lete hain dost ka haath..

hum us haath se zaher bhi pee lete hain...

Mohabbat ko majboori ka naam na dena..

hakikat ko hadso ka naam na dena..

agar dil mein hein kisi k liye pyar..

toh use dosti ka naam na dena.

Do not go gentle into that good night

Do not go gentle into that good night,

Old age should burn and rave at close of day;

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,

Because their words had forked no lightning they

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright

Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,

And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight

Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

And you, my father, there on that sad height,

Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Book Of Lyfe

Zindagi ki kitab ke kuch panne hote hai,

Apne kuch begane hote hai,

Pyar se sanwar jati hai zindagi,

Bas pyar se riste nibhane hote hai,